Not So Random Thoughts

Thinking Out Loud: Musings, Questions, & the Occasional Epiphany...

Chelsea Stockdale Chelsea Stockdale

Permission Granted: Finding Joy in Stillness (and What Your FOMO Might Really Be Saying)

Scroll, scroll, tap. Another perfectly filtered sunset from a beach you're not on. A video montage of an event you didn't attend. A triumphant post about a project completed while you feel stuck in neutral. That familiar little pang hits – maybe a twinge of jealousy, maybe a surge of anxiety – fcking FOMO!

In our hyper-connected, productivity-obsessed world, there's immense pressure to always be doing.

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Chelsea Stockdale Chelsea Stockdale

Bridging the Divide: Friendship Across Political and Religious Lines

In our increasingly polarized world, it's almost inevitable: you'll find yourself sitting across from a friend or family member, a person you genuinely care about, and realize you're on completely opposite sides of a political or religious chasm. You might even find yourself questioning, "Can we still be friends?"

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Chelsea Stockdale Chelsea Stockdale

The Grit and The Gold: Appreciating Travel Beyond the Postcard

Travel. It's romanticized, filtered, and often presented as a seamless montage of breathtaking landscapes and effortless cultural immersion. But the truth, as any seasoned traveler knows, is far more complex, and often, far more rewarding.

Let's ditch the sugar coating. Travel isn't always sunshine and gelato.

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Chelsea Stockdale Chelsea Stockdale

The Power of Saying Less: Why Silence Can Be Your Superpower

In a world that is constantly clamoring for our attention, it can be difficult to find moments of peace and quiet. But sometimes, the best way to find clarity and understanding is to simply say less (it's been hard for me to learn this lesson, I'm Cuban). But I've learned that sometimes, when someone says "oh look Puff the Magic Dragon is in the sky," I respond with "make sure to say hello for me!"

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Dr. Izette Aragon, DSW, MSW, MBA, LCSW, LPCC, CCM

I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in California, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Texas, and Colorado, and hold a Doctorate degree in Social Work. I also mentor associate level therapist and students, because the future of mental health matters.

My approach? Direct, to the point, and focused on change. This isn’t easy work. But if you’re ready to put in the effort, I’m here for it.

Therapy is not about making you feel better for an hour. It’s about teaching you how to navigate life differently so you don’t need me forever.